“If there is no enemy within enemy outside can do you no harm”
This African proverb says so much about our life. The one thing most people learn only in the last stage of their life is the most important person in their life is nobody but themselves. Out of us waste years by belittling ourselves and seeking approval from others. Check out why you should stop doubting yourself.
You may have a great supporting family, super motivating friends and relatives still nobody in the whole world can understand you better than yourself. For the same reason it’s you who could make the better decision for your life. To do so you should believe yourself, you should trust yourself that you could make it.
“Faith can move mountains”, we are all familiar with this line. No matter how much talent and potential you have without having faith in yourself you can’t do anything meaningful in your life. One big mistake all we are doing is seeking approval from others to start something in our mind. We seek others approval to get a boost in confidence.
Others can only advise you from their own experiences. They can’t understand how badly you want something. There is nothing wrong with seeking advice. But you should ask for advice from people who have so much experience in their respective field. Most of the time we seek advice from wrong people.
See if you desire something so deeply and you are willing to put any amount of work to achieve it, never let anyone else's opinion stand between. You may not know the right path or strategy to achieve something you desire. You can always find someone who did. It may take time but you should never drop your dream just because people around you said something against it.
Fear or doubt is obvious when you step into uncertainty. All those big achievements we see around in the world happened because people behind it stepped into that uncertainty with absolute faith. If they doubt them like you do all those achievements would have happened. We all know new discoveries and new wonders will come again and again. People who have strong confidence in themselves, people who never don't in their ability to do wonders, always make wonders.
See, there is so much pride in failing multiple times than never tried. As successful people always say, each failure teaches you something that helps you to try better next time. Is there any sense in doubting yourself even before trying. Only by trying can you realize whether you can do it or not. That’s why keeping doubt is a big mistake you can make against yourself.
Men desire nothing like happiness and peace of mind. Both these states can be achieved by putting your life in a never ending improvement mode. When your life goes by without any change, without any improvement you can’t enjoy true joy of life.
You can’t be everything in life. Nobody can be. But you can excel in everything you find a deep passion and love. Being a master in one thing is worth more than being an average in a number of things. Also every master was a beginner once. They became masters because they started with absolute faith. You should do the same thing. Never let people’s opinion of your own doubt stop you from achieving your true desire. So, DON'T DOUBT YOURSELF AGAIN IN YOUR LIFE.
