Giving good support in the face of trouble has value that can’t be expressed in words. A supportive mind is one of the most essential factors to build a strong, meaningful relationship. Let’s check out how to be truly supportive in a relationship.
The no.1 mistake most people do in a relationship is expecting others to be in their way. Nobody in the whole world can behave and think exactly the way you do. It’s something that is never going to happen. Yes, you can always find people who share the same passion. But now two people have the same thought process, same behaviours and same perspective about life. A good relationship starts to grow when two people learn to accept these differences and support each other.
It’s not making to expect constant support from in a relationship. Maybe you can’t bring solutions to all problems someone has. But you can always give emotional support. You can always give them hope and courage. But to do so you should cultivate an always supportive mentality within your character.
If you stop someone from being their true self how long that person could value you. We humans can only be truly satisfied with life when we do things we deeply love. Each person has their unique likes and dislikes. When you have this awareness and stop no one from being their true self and pursuing their dream you automatically get love and attention from others. Because that kind of personality is most rare in this world.
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When you are a source of constant support and love how can others avoid you? How can others hate you? It’s not controlling but liberating others who build true, strong relationships. That mentality, supporting mentality is far more valuable than any material gift you could ever give.
As we said earlier you can’t bring a solution to every problem someone has. But you can give them confidence that they are not alone to face that problem. You are on their side to face it no matter what. It’s cost nothing to give such support. Just imagine if you live every single day of your life with such a truly supporting mentality how beautiful your life becomes.
If your family members to friends to coworkers never doubt about your supportiveness, never doubt you as someone who stops them from being improved, that's one of the biggest achievements of your life. If you have that mentality then you don’t have to try hard to make strong relationships like most people. Because nobody can truly ignore someone who never stops others from being their true self and pursuing their dreams. Every single soul expects an always supportive person in their life.
Luxuries, material gifts have no value if you don’t respect and support others. Any material gift will lose its value after a while. But a genuine desire to see the constant growth in someone gives them an unexplainable positive energy that nowhere else can find. No human can forget that experience as long as they are alive. It’s that constant supportiveness, unconditional love that builds strong meaningful relationships.
