October 10, 2020

How Your Choices Define Your Destiny

Don't we have the right to be emotional when things are not going according to our terms? Well it's a choice. Some people see every failure as a source for learning not as a reason for being worried or stressed. Your choice of response, your choice of action, what defines the outcome, it's what defines your destiny .Let's check how your choices define your destiny. 

Do you know what's the greatest power in the world?Nobody in the whole world can stop you from choosing the thoughts to like to fill in your mind. Even if the whole world criticizes you if you choose to have happy thoughts you could remain happy. It's sad that most times we are not aware of this power. We let situations and people know how we feel and think. 

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If you let people and situations decide how you feel and think they how you could build a life of your dreams? The thoughts in your head define the quality of the beliefs you have and the quality of the beliefs define the quality of the decisions you make in your life and your decisions define your destiny. So, what do you choose to think most of the time?

If you think of yourself as a failure well then you wouldn't expect a better outcome. At the same time if you choose to believe yourself as an important, capable person you could make amazing achievements. It's your choice, always your choice.

Those who think themselves as important and worthy never let others make choices for them. They know who they are and who they aren't. When this becomes clear the choices in life become much easier. Because such people don't love to follow the crowd. Such people don't love to do the things that don't inspire them. It's that choice that makes them successful and happy.

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To make the right choices in life you should treat yourself as important. To build that belief you shouldn't allow negative thoughts about yourself. Choose to think yourself as important no matter what. If you don't believe yourself as important and worthy you couldn't make right choices in your life.

When you choose to believe yourself as important and worthy you value your desires much deeper. You will start to value your life much more than ever. When you reach that zone you will start to make your choices much more thoughtful than ever.

When you know yourself well, value yourself deeply you would get a clear idea about where to say no and where to say yes. In other words you would stop making decisions based on others opinions. When this clarity becomes a part of your character your choices can't be wrong. In that way your life will bring constant progress.

So, the very base of making right choices in life is what you choose to think about yourself most times. That choice of thoughts defines your destiny. So embrace that power,the power to choose what kind of thoughts to keep in your head. In that way you could create your own destiny

Author Team Nest Matrimony