Do you believe an overactive, emotionally immature person can build strong meaningful relations? No. Every single person expects emotional support in a relationship. Who doesn't want a relationship from where they always get support, inspiration, courage, comfort and love? But only an emotionally mature person can give it. Lets check Why Emotional Intelligence Is Important
Emotional intelligence is one who is conscious of his emotions and has the ability to control them. Such a person also has the awareness that without his consent no outside events and opinions have power over him. It’s not what happens to us but how we interpret those events that define how we feel. But it’s not a mental state that can be reached so easily.
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You can only become what you truly are capable by following your heart. But when you depend your happiness on the opinion of others your decisions also have the influence of others. Most times you choose what is right for others than what is right for you. You can only excel on things that love you from your heart. To do so you must value yourself. When you depend on others for your happiness you can’t reach that mental state.
You can reach that level when you achieve emotional maturity. You have the power to stand calm in the midst of adversity if you keep a positive self talk. Most people can’t do this because when something happens out of their expectation they immediately indulge in negative self talk. They belittle themselves. But if you have the mindset of looking for what to learn from mistakes you could remain happy even if you face failures back to back.
It’s so clear that the emotions you feel totally depend upon how you trained your mind. When you train your mind to seek happiness only on your capability to serve, how well you express human values and the positive habits you have the opinion of others won't matter to you. Because you know yourself much deeper than anyone else. You know your values, your capability, your intentions...so others can’t control you with opinions. That’s why it’s so important to look within to improve your life.
Why Emotional Intelligence Is Important To Build Strong Relationship
Just imagine how great the relationship between two people is when they don’t overly depend on each other for happiness. Over controlling and over dependence always weaken the relationship. At the same time people always want to be with a person who is happy with himself. Only a person who takes full repo ability of how he feels inside can build a positive perspective about life. In other words only an emotionally intelligent person can be happy with himself.
Someone who doesn't need others to be happy doesn’t mean he doesn't love others. It only means he doesn't seek validation, and a good opinion of others to be happy. Emotionally intelligent people know if they keep quality thoughts and quality actions everything else will be fine.
One who knows it’s his perspective what define what he feel inside also have the mind to inspire others to build same mindset. They don’t hesitate to help others to build good respective about life. Who don’t need such a person? Rather than keeping over dependency emotionally intelligent people find so happiness in supporting, inspiring and helping others. This mindset what makes their relations meaningful and strong.
